If the recent political debates have shown anything, it's the stark contrast in this country between the haves and the have-nots. The economic divide is getting wider and whilst there are many in the UK who are thriving and living comfortable lives, there are also many who are not.
Often it's the children who suffer the most, forced to live in squalid conditions, sometimes even dangerous conditions.
What kind of a childhood would it be to live here? Bare floorboards, a dirty mattress for a bed, no bed covers, a dirty sheet nailed to the window for a curtain, no natural light...
I've been called to action. It's no use just moaning about these injustices, it's time to DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. Kiddicare has joined forces with the charity Kids Company to make a real and practical difference to families lives with the Colour a Child's Life campaign. They have invited me along as a volunteer for a day with one of their families, to help renovate 2 children's rooms.
It's not just about having a nicely decorated home to live in. This kind of fresh start can be a real catalyst for change. Often the poor living conditions can exacerbate health problems, impact on self-esteem and confidence, impact on school attendance and performance and a whole host of other knock-on effects.
Children are reliant on those who care for them to create
a safe, clean and nurturing home environment. Sadly,
lots of parents are unable to sustain an appropriate
standard of care due to poverty, mental health difficulties
or substance misuse.
These children and their families are living in local
authority accommodation where social work departments
are at breaking point and demand outweighs resources,
leaving children in chronic poverty and neglect. Often
young people leaving the care system are given their own
flat, only to find that it is barely habitable.
Kids Company's Colour a Child's Life campaign has worked with many families such as the Barton family.
When Kids
Company staff first visited the Barton family’s flat they were unable to see
the floor underneath a mass of clutter. Each room was dirty and disorganised.
Paul, who had just turned eight, rarely left his bedroom. He spent most of his
time lying on a thin, battered mattress watching TV.
The light
was permanently shut out by an old duvet cover that was nailed over the window
frame. The walls in his room were saturated in damp and mould due to an
external leak – the probable cause for his asthma. His sister Veronica,
who was eleven, had a slightly better bedroom, yet it had not been decorated
during her lifetime and was covered in woodchip wallpaper which had yellowed.
Veronica had written her name in thick marker pen next to a small love heart
she’d drawn. A series of fist marks were indented into her bedroom door.
During
the Colour a Child’s Life intervention it became known that Paul had less than
a 30 per cent school attendance. Both he and his sister survived almost
exclusively on high sugar snacks including Coke Cola, biscuits and chocolate
bars. The children’s mother, Sue, suffered with learning difficulties and
struggled to offer the care her children required. Nether child had ever met
their father. When a CaCL was suggested to the family, they became slightly
unsettled. They’d become used to their chaotic environment.
In
just two days, volunteers and Kids Company staff were able to perform a total
transformation. With careful consideration, the clutter was sent to the skip.
The damp and mould was treated, the leak repaired and the broken door replaced.
Each room was decorated with a colour scheme chosen by the family. Flat-pack
furniture was assembled including new beds and chests of drawers. Carpets were
installed and soft furnishings put in place.
During
the renovation reveal, Veronica screamed and ran into her bedroom. Paul didn’t
say anything, but walked over to the window and drew the curtains a few times.
Sue was delighted and thanked each volunteer for “the kindest thing to ever
happen.”
Kids
Company’s support to the Barton family is ongoing. Both Paul and Veronica take
part in art therapy and attend their Arches II centre in Camberwell.
With corporate partner Kiddicare, Kids Company will assess the needs of the family, and staff who specialise in cleaning, decorating and carpentry
are assisted in renovating the home by volunteers. New furniture and soft furnishing is provided, damp issues addressed, decorating completed and a safe, vibrant environment is delivered to the family, with their input on what they'd like.
Thousands of children, young people and their families have benefited from Kids Company’s Colour a Child’s Life program, gaining confidence, self-esteem and a
greater sense of stability. The effect on their daily lives is
never short of remarkable.
Kids Company’s Colour a Child’s life project is uniquely
effective in its service delivery. The team is innovative and
flexible in their approach, and each project is tailor made to meet the needs of the family or young person involved.
So, in a couple of weeks time, I'll be donning overalls and rolling up my sleeves in the hope that my small part will help make a difference to a child's life. Hopefully we'll see some amazing transformations like this.
Check back in a few weeks time for a progress update.
Thanks to Kiddicare for inviting me.
This sounds a terrific idea - Kids Company do such brilliant work - and this is a great tie-up. Well done you for getting involved too. I think it will be v rewarding.
ReplyDeleteThanks Sarah, Kids Company do amazing work. Happy to be involved in a small way.
DeleteWhat a brilliant project!
ReplyDeleteIsn't it great Sonya?
DeleteWhat an amazing project to be involved with Go you!
ReplyDeleteI'm so pleased they asked me.
DeleteWhat an incredible project, such amazing work well done for getting involved x
ReplyDeleteI'm honoured to have been asked.
DeleteI applaud your efforts, it really has transformed the living area for the children concerned. Personally, looking at those pictures I would classify any child living in those conditions as being neglected and would hope the local authority would take action. It is incredibly sad that some parents (through no fault of their own in most caes) are incapable of caring for their children. Stephen
ReplyDeleteThanks for your comment. These transformations aren't my handiwork sadly - not sure my DIY skills are that great! But they are examples of previous interventions and show clearly I think the amazing impact this project can have.
DeleteGenerally these families, children and young people are referred to the Colour a Child’s Life team by key workers and then a Kids Company frontline member of staff visits the home to make an assessment of changes that need to happen. More than just the cosmetic work, they offer ongoing support and help so that families can thrive and stay together. x
This is an amazing project. I have seen first hand the terrible accommodation local authorities deem as 'adequate' and transformations like this can have a huge impact on a child's life and sense of self worth. Fantastic project!
ReplyDeleteTotally agree Louisa x
DeleteI love this so much. Well done on getting involved, it will be remarkable. Kids Company are the best.
ReplyDeleteThey do amazing work don't they Kate? x
DeleteThis sounds great, I'm sure it will be really rewarding for you, and more importantly, make such a difference to a family.
ReplyDeleteI'm really glad to be involved. x
DeleteBravo! What a super project to help our children ( and their families)! Wonder if anyone is doing something like this in my community? Linda@Wetcreek Blog
ReplyDeleteOh I'm sure you could find out? Would be great to get involved, you have brilliant design skills. x
DeleteWhat a great project to get involved with. I agree that children need to feel grounded and settled and I could imagine what a wonderful impact this would make.
ReplyDeleteIt must make such a huge difference to have somewhere safe and secure to call their own.
DeleteWhat a really great project and it really does hit home just how lucky we are x
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely x
DeleteWhere my Nana lives, many of the kids live like this, poor families struggling and it become a vicious circle. I find it hard to believe that this happens in our country and I'd love to know what the PM thinks or if he even cares. There always seems to be so much talk of benefits this that and the other but really this is the reality and it's not good enough. Thanks for telling us about the project and well done to you for getting involved.
ReplyDeleteThe media in this country are just demonising those who most need our help. I'm sickened by what we've become as a society.
DeleteWhat a fantastic project to be involved with, I cannot wait to see what changes you manage to make! x
ReplyDeleteThanks Sarah-Louise, keep an eye out, I'll be sharing pictures.
DeleteWhat an amazing project. I actually really dread to think about how many families are living like this and really need someone to offer them help like this. Go you, what a great thing to be doing!
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely Belle.
DeleteLooks like a fabulous project, cannot believe the difference in the rooms
ReplyDeleteIt's quite astonishing isn't it?
DeleteWell done for supporting such a worthwhile project that will make a difference to some very vulnerable people. As an adoptive parent I'm only too aware of the terrible conditions in which many children live in the UK (most adopted children in the UK come from the Care system and have been neglected and/or abused). I'm pleased to hear that Kids Company also offer ongoing support to these families because many of them will need a lot more than new furniture and redecoration if they're going to turn their lives around.
ReplyDeleteKids Company are such an amazing charity and this is only a small part of what they do, so absolutely they offer ongoing support. x
Deletewhat a great project we will be doing ours once the garden project is finished lol
ReplyDeleteThanks.
Deletesuch a fab and rewarding project to get involved with for the families and yourself.
ReplyDeleteSuch an important campaign. I have worked with many families in poverty and it scares me just how the situation is becoming worse.
ReplyDeleteWow this is amazing and what a difference they have made. A brilliant project to get involved with.
ReplyDeleteMy goodness those before picture are just heartbreaking. What a great campaign.
ReplyDeleteWhat an utterly stunning difference! wow well done you for helping
ReplyDeleteWow, great idea and a wonderful project.
ReplyDeleteWhat an absolutely amazing initiative! Hope it makes a difference to lots more children.
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