I'm pleased to welcome Michael here on my blog today, giving some great advice on how to hold your wedding on a budget:
I always thought that I’d attend the most weddings while in
my 20s, given that that’s when many of us and our friends seem to tie the knot.
But whether it’s due to friends of friends, extended family or old
acquaintances, it seems there’s no slowing down on the number of invitations
and save-the-dates coming through the letterbox. I for one am not complaining -
I love going to weddings, and they’re almost always a fantastic occasion.
But one thing that’s resulted from the various nuptials I’ve
attended is that I rather see myself as a couch expert. I’ve seen so many
things done well, a handful of things done badly, and too often seen people
waste money where it could easily have been saved. When you consider that the
average cost of a wedding has now inflated to over £20,000, it’s fair to say that, more often than not, there’s room to skim
some pennies off the top.
Here are the five most common areas I’ve picked up where
some cost-cutting can be done without compromising on the quality of the day
itself…
A bout of realism
Perspective is the first step in the right direction. So
many brides (and grooms) talk up ‘the perfect day’ concept in the build-up to a
wedding. In reality though, the most enjoyable, memorable and fun-filled
weddings I have been to have been notably imperfect. So the first thing to do
is accept that something will almost certainly not go according to plan on the day,
and that you need not throw a heap of money at things to frantically try and
avoid this. Decide what’s important, and what’s less important, and begin your
budgeting from there.
Negotiation
Negotiation
Going against the grain
A Saturday wedding in the summer, yes? No. Not if you want
to save a bucket load of money anyway. Venues in particular will offer a
significantly lower price if you get married during the week and/or in months outside of June to September. It might not be
what you envisaged, but bear in mind two things… the weather in the summer is
far from guaranteed anyway, and getting married in the week could have the
added perk of naturally culling those who were borderline in terms of being
invited. If they can’t make it during the week, then it works out well for
everyone, without hurting anyone’s feelings.
A cunning helping hand
A cunning helping hand
We all plan ahead for our big day, but the reality is that
not everyone has thousands of pounds lying around to pay for a wedding. So if
you and your partner are paying for the entirety of the day on your own, and
need a helping hand with the costs, and that’s okay. But don’t stick it all on your
credit card! Credit cards charge a fortune in interest, and, even though
they’re convenient, can get you into a debt cycle. Low-cost, hassle-free
personal loans are widely available, and can often be aconstructive way of financing your wedding. Not to mention the honeymoon
too!
Get all the help you can!
Why not ask your guests to bring a bottle with them? Booze
is the killer expense after
all. Or bake your own cake? Be your own DJ? Be sure to get your friends to muck
in wherever possible too, and fill roles such as master of ceremonies, or even
officiant. And don’t be shy to ask your guests for money as a wedding present.
It’s almost become custom these days, and everyone understands the costs
involved with putting together a wedding. So, the lesson is… don’t be shy to
ask, and take initiative yourself!
Funnily enough, we have two weddings to go to this year after several years with none! So there must be something in the air!
ReplyDeleteI have a wedding to go to this year...my own! And believe me it will be on a budget, it's good to reap tips from wherever I can, I'm definitely not getting married in the summer and will probably go for a week day too.
ReplyDeleteWe did our wedding on a budget. It was organised in six weeks and that helped massively as we didn't have time to overspend. We also got married at the end of December which also helped as the hotel we booked was so much cheaper than in the summer.
ReplyDeleteThese are great tips. I got married on 30th Dec and got a great deal because no venue was expecting to have a big party the day before New Years Eve and every place we approached was very happy to reduce costs. So often weddings get out of hand in terms of budget so it's good to have some tips.
ReplyDeleteThere are always corners to be cut if you shop around and are sensible. It is so tempting for a Wedding to cast practicalities aside though so good to have a plan to bring things in on budget.
ReplyDeleteGood ideas here!!!
ReplyDeleteI agree - for us, the wedding invitations seem to never end! I do love a good wedding, though. The one we went to last year was great - loads of people pitched in to help, which made it extra brilliant.
ReplyDeleteGreat tips. I have always said if I ever get married, I would be more than happy to elope. It is all so expensive and there's a real sense of romance about just running away and tying the knot x
ReplyDeleteI hardly ever seem to get wedding invites these days and even christenings are less frequent now. It seems to be getting ridiculously expensive though, but you're right there are ways to do it on a budget.
ReplyDeleteOne of the best weddings I have been to was very much a joint project with the help of family and friends. It meant a lot more than an impersonal venue with stacks of money thrown at it...Good tips! :)
ReplyDeleteWe did our wedding 21 years ago on a very tight budget. For us it was all about the people and not the event. I hope that my boys marry people who feel the same!
ReplyDeleteWe had a super cheap wedding which cost less than £250 for everything including my dress - we went to Gretna Green with about 15 family and friends, had a super cheap buffet in a pub over the road and bought our outfits on sale. The cakes were a gift and the rings were just plain bands and we had an amazing day. We'd just bought a house so we had no money and my parents had helped massively with buying the house so we didn't want to ask for any help with paying for this x
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